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Catholic therapist, Thomas Schmierer, addresses your most important relational matters, whether it be with someone you are dating or your spouse, family member, friend, boss, or co-worker. This category of articles also includes parenting advice.

What Can I Do About My Child’s Meltdowns, Misbehavior and Violence?

February 1, 2025 By Thomas Schmierer, Catholic Therapist, LMFT

A reader wrote: I would love it if you could address how parents are supposed to handle children who become unglued and out of control. My family is currently struggling with this issue, and I feel like my child’s behavior is hijacking our peace and scaring his siblings. I’m actively trying to get him help, but so far, we’ve hit roadblocks and are feeling desperate. I first … [Read more...] about What Can I Do About My Child’s Meltdowns, Misbehavior and Violence?

Gottman Method Marital Therapy: A Model Worthy of Our Trust?

August 30, 2024 By Thomas Schmierer, Catholic Therapist, LMFT

When it comes to selecting the most scientifically grounded approach to marital therapy, the Gottman Method stands out as a top contender. Developed by Dr. John Gottman, a highly respected researcher in the field of relationships, this method is rooted in decades of rigorous research and a commitment to evidence-based practice. Unlike many other therapy models, which may rely … [Read more...] about Gottman Method Marital Therapy: A Model Worthy of Our Trust?

How Can I Best Prepare for an Optimal Catholic Marriage with Someone with a Minimal Faith/Moral Background & How Much Affection Is Appropriate?

May 11, 2019 By Thomas Schmierer, Catholic Therapist, LMFT

A reader asked: Could you summarize the contents of your The Pacing of Intimacy for Adult Catholic Christians CD, particularly the proper progression of physical affection and how to best prepare for an optimal Catholic marriage when one of the partners has a minimal Catholic faith/moral background? Dear Reader, Rather than summarize the contents of the entire CD set, … [Read more...] about How Can I Best Prepare for an Optimal Catholic Marriage with Someone with a Minimal Faith/Moral Background & How Much Affection Is Appropriate?

What Kind of Relationship Can Two Catholic Divorced Persons Have in the Eyes of God?

April 16, 2019 By Thomas Schmierer, Catholic Therapist, LMFT

A reader asked: I'm divorced.  My boyfriend is divorced.  What kind of relationship can we have in the eyes of God?  We want to do things right this time.  Other relevant details: I did not have a Catholic wedding and my wedding was not approved as an exception by Church authority.  However, my boyfriend had a Catholic … [Read more...] about What Kind of Relationship Can Two Catholic Divorced Persons Have in the Eyes of God?

How Do I Stop Enabling My Controlling Daughter and Renew My Relationship with My Estranged Daughter?

September 25, 2018 By Thomas Schmierer, Catholic Therapist, LMFT

A reader asked: How do I unravel knots that have been tightened for over ten years? I am so enmeshed in one daughter’s life and she in mine, while my other daughter is estranged. I am 74, a divorced single mom, and either extremely codependent, passive aggressive, or have low self esteem and am pathetic as my daughter says. I have kowtowed to her needs ever since she was a teen … [Read more...] about How Do I Stop Enabling My Controlling Daughter and Renew My Relationship with My Estranged Daughter?

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