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Thomas Schmierer, Catholic Therapist, LMFT

About Thomas Schmierer, Catholic Therapist, LMFT

Thomas Schmierer (pronounced "shmeer") is a licensed marriage and family therapist. He is a faithful Catholic who helps individuals, couples, and families in pain to experience deep personal and relational healing by using the top faith and evidence-based treatments so that they can live out their unique vocations to love with ever greater peace, holiness, and joy. He has been seeing clients since 2008. Healing and Peace is the name of Thomas's private practice and his blog. His office is in Oceanside, CA, but he also offers therapy services over the phone/Skype (online) for clients located in AZ, CA, KS, FL, NJ, & WY and Catholic life and relationship coaching services for clients worldwide. His CA license number is 80450. Thomas graduated summa cum laude from Holy Apostles College & Seminary with an M.A. in Moral Theology in 2009 and tries to understand what Sacred Scripture and Sacred Tradition have to tell us about how to go about our everyday living. He has a special interest in the writings of St. Thomas Aquinas, St. Benedicta of the Cross, and St. Pope John Paul II's Theology of the Body and enjoys trying to break down complicated theological concepts to make them more accessible and useful for the average lay Catholic. He is also the creator of the Healing and Peace Blog: Your Catholic Guide Through the Trials of Life.

What Can I Do About My Child’s Meltdowns, Misbehavior and Violence?

February 1, 2025 By Thomas Schmierer, Catholic Therapist, LMFT

A reader wrote: I would love it if you could address how parents are supposed to handle children who become unglued and out of control. My family is currently struggling with this issue, and I feel like my child’s behavior is hijacking our peace and scaring his siblings. I’m actively trying to get him help, but so far, we’ve hit roadblocks and are feeling desperate. I first … [Read more...] about What Can I Do About My Child’s Meltdowns, Misbehavior and Violence?

Gottman Method Marital Therapy: A Model Worthy of Our Trust?

August 30, 2024 By Thomas Schmierer, Catholic Therapist, LMFT

When it comes to selecting the most scientifically grounded approach to marital therapy, the Gottman Method stands out as a top contender. Developed by Dr. John Gottman, a highly respected researcher in the field of relationships, this method is rooted in decades of rigorous research and a commitment to evidence-based practice. Unlike many other therapy models, which may rely … [Read more...] about Gottman Method Marital Therapy: A Model Worthy of Our Trust?

Science vs. Pseudoscience: How to Avoid Being Duped by Junk “Science”

July 1, 2023 By Thomas Schmierer, Catholic Therapist, LMFT

A sucker may be born every day, but you don’t need to be that sucker today or any day. In a capitalistic economy like ours, snake oil salesmen are everywhere looking to earn a fast dollar from gullible consumers. In such an economy, it is especially important for consumers to be able to clearly separate safe, effective products and services from ones that are harmful or do not … [Read more...] about Science vs. Pseudoscience: How to Avoid Being Duped by Junk “Science”

009: Straight Thinking About Sexual Identity — Katrina Zeno

April 20, 2020 By Thomas Schmierer, Catholic Therapist, LMFT

Do you have a daughter who feels more like a boy than a girl and wants to have a sex change?  Or do you maybe have a son who came home from college last Thanksgiving and shared the news over the turkey dinner: “Mom, Dad, I’m gay”?  If you are a parent who is facing or has faced one of these difficult and very modern situations, you might be as, if not more, confused … [Read more...] about 009: Straight Thinking About Sexual Identity — Katrina Zeno

Guest Profile: Katrina Zeno

April 20, 2020 By Thomas Schmierer, Catholic Therapist, LMFT

Katrina J. Zeno, MTS, is the coordinator of the St. John Paul II Resource Center for Theology of the Body and Culture for the Diocese of Phoenix, AZ, and the author of three books including Discovering the Feminine Genius and The Body Reveals God. She has been speaking nationally and internationally on St. John Paul II's "theology of the body" for over 21 years in wonderful … [Read more...] about Guest Profile: Katrina Zeno

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